My #1 secret tip to Grow Long Black Kinky Hair. First, Id like to say how much I love black kinky hair. Yours, Mine, anybody. I admit that I am intrigued maybe borderline obsessed lol. Kinky Hair is the most versatile hair there is. It seems that recently we are learning more and more tips to not just grow it, but to maintain it to grow it long and healthy. Im truly thankful for that.
Lets get to the meat of this blog….. I receive many emails and phone calls everyday from new customers who want to grow their kinky hair long and they are mostly frustrated because they feel they have not yet mastered it. I noticed that within the frustration lies a recurring commonality. That commonality is an alarming negative; self hatred of their own black hair. I have to admit, before i mastered my own hair, i had those same negative feelings about the kinky-ness, dryness and dullness of my hair that refuses to grow.
To be transparent here, because it is just you and I right now. RIGHT ??? I hated myself.. There, I said it, and it is our secret. I hated myself because I did not look like what society said beauty represented. My hair was not straight and certainly not long. It was short, black and kinky. Really Kinky……
One day, I could not take it anymore. I was going to rid myself of this dried up kinky hair that made me feel less than beautiful. Out of frustration, with tears in my eyes, and scissors in my hand; I began to take a long hard look in the mirror into the eyes of the woman staring back at me and before i make the first cut; I began to feel compassion. From there, i began to embrace that which I could not change. It occurred to me that the negative vibes about my black hair, was not only reflective of how others perceived me but it was the reason for my inability to grow my kinky hair long and healthy . I learned that what you put out into the universe, will manifest itself in your life. If a man thinketh, so shall it be. What do you think?
